You can find out what your red flag is by taking this What Is Your Red Flag Quiz. It’s the most accurate quiz among the others since it’s regularly updated.
There is no end to the compliments they give you about your beauty.
There is nothing worse than being put on a pedestal by a partner, regardless of how tempting it may seem at first. It is impossible for this person to sympathize with you for being a normal, flawed, breathing human being instead of a projection of some beautiful idea they have inside their heads. It is terrible when someone is so fascinated with you.
It is either much greater or much lesser than yours when it comes to their relationship.
You can have as much (or as little) relationship as you want in life, but you and your partner need to have a similar libido, or, at the very least, come up with a plan to deal with any disparities. Imagine one partner’s ideal relationship life is to have a relationship virtually every night, while the other is content only to have it once or twice a month. Both partners become resentful when one partner initiates a relationship and the other isn’t in the mood very often. This results in bruised egos, hurt feelings, emotional pressure, and resentment. The What’s Your Red Flag Quiz is also worth trying.
Quiz: What Are Your Red Flags?
When you tell your new boo to stop tickling you, does he or she continue to do so? Do they continue to touch you in seemingly benign ways (such as hugs, shoulder rubs, or poking you in the arm like a sibling) when you ask for personal space? They may not respect your right to your own body and will try to push those boundaries to even more dangerous levels in the future in pen holder.
It is too soon for them to enter into a new relationship.
A malignant narcissist, on the rebound, or engaged in a very poisonous form of serial monogamy is the only way to describe them. Whatever the case may be, NOPE NOPE NOPE.
Attempts are made to create a schism between you and your family and friends.
The person who wants you all to themselves is probably someone you should avoid at all costs.
You often get rolled eyes from them.
It’s no surprise that couples who roll their eyes at each other are more likely to divorce than those who don’t. Great relationships are built on mutual respect, and you don’t respect someone who continuously rolls their eyes at you.
Their ex-partners are all described as “crazy.”
The end of some relationships can leave us bitter toward the ex for years to come, but if your current spouse spews hate at all of the “crazy” previous loves whenever they have the chance, they are the issue.
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It is common for people to call you names during heated debates.
You’ll never avoid fighting, but beware of anyone who appears to turn into an unrecognizable monster when you disagree, calling you insults that would cause their mother to wash her mouth out with soap. There could be a sign of disrespect or poor dispute resolution skills, which will not make for a happy partnership.
It’s obvious that they don’t work hard.
When a person is falling behind on life milestones or doesn’t seem to have their shittogether on the surface, what matters more than their situation is how they feel about it. They may be unmotivated (in that case, NEXT), or they may have fallen behind because of a major sacrifice or setback. We all have our own unique schedules.
If this individual is unhappy with their current circumstances, is he or she working hard every day to create a better life for themselves? It is entirely dependent on one’s attitude that the difference is made.
Their parents are unkind to them.
It is natural for adults to have issues with their parents (show me an adult who blindly worships Mom and Dad, and I’ll show you a liar), but be on the lookout for partners who have no regard for their parents. It says something about how they will treat others who grow close to them if they can bear to be cruel and ungrateful to those who gave them birth. (Unless their parents are abusive, in which case they have every right to refuse to make nice with them.)